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Tuesday, May 16

Love Advice From

You’ve seen the advertisements, the ones with breasts and the slogan FIND TRUE LOVE*, but did you know that also has handy advice for online dating? In case you were ever having trouble coming up with good subject lines for emails to people you want to see naked, offers the article entitled “6 Surefire Subject Lines.”

“You’ve done your quick search, and sproing! There’s the picture. That girl’s hot enough to melt butter. That guy’s steamy enough to be the designated no-shirt guy on a reality series.

Or maybe you’ve done more research – browsed your compatibles, read the profiles and found somebody who’s a good pairing for you.

Time to send an email. But how are you going to stand out from the crowd?

First of all, sproing?

Second, is it obvious that this site is having trouble reconciling their advertising with their message? If I made a movie called “ The Movie,” the lead role would be played by a schizophrenic writer who, while writing these articles, is haunted by a horny devil on one shoulder and an optimistic angel on the other. Then, in an ironic twist, she would meet the love of her life on who would leave her not when he found out about her illness but when he learned that her antipsychotic medication would make her gain weight. So she would go off her meds and try to win him back by following him around and killing everyone who rejected him on It would be a romantic comedy.

Anyway, the article continues:

TRUE surveyed active members to get their most successful email subject lines. The main rules are:

The more personalized the email, the more response you’re likely to get. The more canned it seems, the less likely you’ll hear back.

People respond well to humor. You don’t have to be funny, but keep it light, at least at first. If you’re still angry from your last relationship, emails are not the place to vent.

I don’t know about that last one. I always thought that going with a subject line like “Re: my last girlfriend was a stinking slut” told the girl that you were serious about finding a relationship. But what do I know. Apparently these six suggestions are the way to go:

Want to know a secret?

Nobody can resist a secret. Were you ever left out when your friends were telling secrets when you were a kid? Weren’t you dying to know? This one’s a winner.

What they fail to mention is that you actually have to follow that up with a secret. Otherwise your email will say:

To: sexyambercrombiemodel
From: Tom
Re: Want to know a secret?

So how’s it going? What do you do for a living? Loved your profile. I’m totally into exercising too.

• You’ll never guess what happened after my last email!

This works best when followed by a sentence that personalizes it for the recipient. The first sentence of the email could read "…I didn’t get to meet you. I’m glad I get to now."

She’ll never guess that you didn’t get to meet her? Because she’s blind and has no way of knowing when you’re in her house?

• You’ll swear by me, not at me!

Members we surveyed reported humor as their best technique for getting email opened. However what you find funny might not make somebody else laugh, so run it past a friend first. You have to funny, not whiny and not obnoxious.

I once sent an email to a Jewish girl with the subject line “Don’t pass me over.” I’m 100% serious. And 100% seriously, she did not reply.

• We have something in common.

The best approach is to personalize the email with details out of the member’s profile. This shows that you cared enough to read the profile and make an effort. A weaker version of this is to say that the thing you have in common is your desire to meet someone online, and then to talk quite frankly about your experience doing this. Most people appreciate honesty. Another version of this is: "We have a friend in common – each other" (which, strictly speaking, isn’t a logical statement, but when you’re trying to start a conversation, who’s counting?)

I wish everyone reading this could be here with me right now, at my desk, laughing with me after I read that. “. . . which, strictly speaking, isn’t a logical statement . . .” There’s nothing I can say that could make that any funnier.

• Your screen name rhymes with ______________!

For instance, if someone’s screen name is Paulb, you might say "your screen name rhymes with date me" or if your screen name was TrueDish, you might says "your screen name rhymes with my wish." An alternate version of this is to say something off the wall, but engaging, for names that have no rhymes like "your screen name reminds me of my second grade teacher." And in the email … "Were you Mrs. ScaryOrange at Pearson Elementary in 1985?" And then go on to be funny.

To: Belligerent Intellectual
From: sexyambercrombiemodel
Re: Your screen name rhymes with indigent homosexual!

Were you the indigent homosexual I gave money to on the subway this morning? Call me!

• Adventures in dating.

Tell what those adventures could be, but don’t be pornographic.

Adventures like “We could go to Brooklyn for dinner”? Or adventures like “I know we just met over the internet, but doesn’t white water rafting sound fun”? Or maybe adventures like “Either one of us could be psychotic and a killer, but still we’re going to give this a shot because this is the only way I can meet people while working ten hours a day and being that the advertisements show smoking hot women, this seems like a great place to start, and that, in itself, is a pretty big adventure . . . plus I want to meet your hoo-ha”?

* It’s like starting a charity to raise awareness for skin cancer, and in the advertisements for the charity you show tanned teenagers laying out on a beach smoking cigarettes with a slogan across the top like “Be Cool – Don’t Get Cancer.”


Is this why you didn't write me back when I sent you the email with "belligerent intellectual rhymes with indigent homosexual!!!1!" in the subject heading? Jerk.

By Blogger mysterygirl!, at 2:10 PM  

This made me laugh at my desk, which means my employers know I am fucking off again. I think I just remembered why Heather and I abandoned our online dating project. People who use online dating sites are psychos, but bloggers are completely normal.

By Blogger Betty, at 3:19 PM  

. . and also rhymes with
* Totally Ineffectual
* Breezy Son of Israel
* Mildewed, Humid and Clinical; or
* Grey and Institutional

By Blogger Leezer, at 3:20 PM  

I have one for you:

I am most assuredly not asking you to f*** like rabbits.

Yup, actually used on me...

...and it worked.

(it was in response to a blog I'd written about receiving an email from another admirer about wanting to f*** like rabbits as his come-on)

By Blogger MonkeyPants, at 3:22 PM  

THAT worked, but "Don't pass me over" didn't? Come on! Passover?! That's good stuff!

By Blogger the belligerent intellectual, at 3:40 PM  

These sound more like tips on how to sound like a total skeezy stalker.

And, Mrs. ScaryOrange? Where did they come up with that?!?!

By Blogger Hope, at 3:47 PM  

I think the subject line "I put out" is probably the most honest and either they'll love it or they don't put which case, do you really want them to write back?

By Blogger Carrie Broadshoulders, at 3:52 PM  

Maybe if you'd said something along the lines of "you can paint me with goat's blood" or "I won't kill your first-born child," she would have replied. Or called the police. That is the true excitement of love. Or you could have been sweet and said something about how she'll never need bitter herbs or salty water to remind her of misery again...

I do think it would be funny if they had an ad like the one that says, "Is SHE sexually compatible with you?" followed by "You know what definitely is? Your sock."

By Blogger Rebecca, at 4:29 PM  

No wonder no one stays together anymore. They all base their relationships on "his screen name rhymned with bigdick."

By Blogger Janet, at 5:43 PM  

If I were a girl, I would so go out with you after than funny "Passover" line.

By Blogger Neil, at 5:49 PM  

How about: "I'll Koran on your face" ?

By Blogger [Disgrundled], at 5:59 PM  

so, what are YOUR top subject lines? we're all wondering =)

By Anonymous Anonymous, at 6:10 PM  

That was SO totally written by a couple of 20-year-old tecchies high on weed. And they were laughing so hard at their computers that the stodgy old manager thought it was a good article & let them post it!

By Blogger shirley, at 11:03 PM  

Speaking of weed, my word verification was "wvntktke". Wvanna take a toke?

By Blogger shirley, at 11:04 PM  

I was going to comment on this post earlier today, but I couldn't think of anything funny to say. Now I'm back and I still can't think of anything funny. Because this post has sucked the funny from everything in a 1,550 mile radius, leaving nothing but LOLs and ROFLs and LMFAOs for commenters like me to type.

Basically, this is some funny shit.

By Blogger Jess Riley, at 12:05 AM  

Made me laugh out loud - the advertsing for makes it look like a porn site - I'm sure ALL the girls really look like that too. Models always have trouble getting dates.

By Blogger Just, at 4:50 AM  

I'd have to agree with carrie. I'd prefer receiving 'I put out' to the 'pass over...'

Though I think 'I'm employed and not looking for a mommy figure' would work best.

By Blogger ƒåυνέ, at 8:21 AM  

wow, if only I had known all this good advice years ago, I wouldn't still be single. So glad you shared all of this valuable *cough* information!! lol too funny!

By Blogger Amy, at 9:07 AM  

It's clear that the f*ck-knuckles they got to write this drivle is socially retarded, and is now giving advice to the masses of social retards in hopes to contribute to the already woefully polluted gene pool. Someone needs to hire some goons to start breaking some fingers as this must not be allowed to continue.

By Blogger JP, at 11:22 AM  

I am so relieved that they have FINALLY come up with a word to express sexual arousal.

"Sproing" it is.

Thank God, now I can sleep at night.

By Blogger Jenni, at 12:09 PM  

i'll never look at your icon again and not think 'breezy son of israel.'

please delete viscountess of funk from your records. i would like to claim that comment as my own.

By Blogger ducklet, at 12:22 PM  

There's is only ONE way to find sexual compatiblility.

With ads like these...True should not underline the 'U', instead make it look like a condom.

By Blogger Noblesse Oblige, at 1:18 PM  

All I could think about was that I wanted that girl's rack (bottom row, 2nd one from the right).

I'm so freakin' jealous.

Anyone got $10k for a good boob job?

By Blogger hanmee, at 9:41 AM  

i don't know about, but i definitley have better experiences in

By Blogger partygirljessica, at 9:19 AM  

The original post = poetry
The comments = heavenly
I = in a state of pure ecstasy

By Anonymous I, Sproing, at 4:50 AM  

Many times this is overrated, because you can expect to find happiness when you find a boyfriend, girlfriend even a married, to be happy with someone you must first be happy with yourself, many people get hurts in a relationship because they look for happiness in someone else they put they're own happiness in someelse hands, if you are not happy by yourself, how do you expect to someone else makes you happy ?

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